Jennifer Lopez’s Ex Ojani Noa Responds to Ben Affleck Wedding, Shades Marriage

hopeless romantic? Jennifer Lopez’s ex-husband Ojani NoaBen Affleck’s reaction to the wedding reveals what he really thinks of his ex-wife and Benifer.

Ojani, J-Lo’s first husband, who she was married to from 1997 to 1998, told daily Mail On July 30, 2022, that he wishes “the best” to his ex-wife and her new husband, but doubts they will “live to the end.” “Ben is husband number four. I was husband number one and he told me I was the love of his life. When we lay in bed on our wedding night, he said we would always be together,” Ojani said, j- Lou just “loves to be in love.”

Ojani also told The Daily Mail that he predicts that J-Lo will be married “seven or eight times” in his lifetime and that he can’t see her “never to settle down with one person”. “I wish him and Ben the best of luck, but I’m not sure it will last,” Ojani said. “I think she’s someone who’ll be married seven or eight times. I can never see her settling down with just one person. She pushes herself to constantly move forward in her professional life, which is why She has had a career spanning three decades, but she also carries on in her personal life.”

Ojani sees in a way J-Lo and Ben’s wedding Permanent, however, and it is if J-Lo’s mother, Guadalupe Rodriguez, approves of Ben. “If Ben has Lupe he’s probably got his chance,” Ojani said. J-Lo has been married four times and engaged six times to five different men. His first marriage was to waiter Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998. Her second marriage was to dancer Chris Judd from 2001 to 2003. Her third marriage was to singer Marc Anthony from 2004 to 2014. Mark and J-Lo also have two children together: 14-year-old twins Emme Maribel Muniz and Maximilian David Muniz. J-Lo’s Fourth Married to Ben Affleck, whom she married in July 2022. J-Lo and Ben first started dating in 2002 and got engaged the same year. They were set to get married in 2003 but annulled their marriage before separating in 2004. J-Lo and Beno reunited in 2021 after eliminating him Engaged to Alex RodriguezWhich he dated from 2017 to 2021.

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In his interview with The Daily Mail, Ojani—a Cuban refugee who fled his home at the age of 15 in an inflatable boat—revealed that he met J-Lo when he was 22. , when she worked as a dishwasher and waiter at Gloria Estefan. Ocean Drive Restaurant Lario on the Beach. “Miami was buzzing. I did some modeling. I hurried. I wanted the American dream — and I got it when Jen entered Lario,” he said. “I had no idea who she was. Our eyes looked at each other and I thought she was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. ,

The next night J-Lo returned to the restaurant, where Noah served another customer’s french fries after the “On the Floor” singer said they sounded “delicious”. “I was smitten. She was wearing a white top and trousers, and I remember she had the best body I had ever seen. She later told me that she knew the first night she was going to marry me.” That night, J-Lo and Ojani partyed at the commune club, where they learned from J-Lo’s friend that she was interested in him.” When we arrived at the club, my friend Leo Jane danced Took it to the floor, and I thought, ‘Hey man, you’re one lucky guy.’ Then [her friend] Said, ‘When they come back, take Jane away. She’s interested in you,'” she said. “They come back and I take her by the hand and take her to the floor, and a slow song comes on. There was lightning. She was trembling and said, ‘You bother me.’ “We could both feel the romantic energy. It was immediate and intense. Like it was pouring out of our bodies. I said, ‘I feel the same way you feel.’ I lifted her chin and gave her a kiss – it was a kiss like we’ve known each other forever.”

During that kiss, Ojani remembered a fan seeing her and said, “Oh my god, that’s from Jennifer Lopez. money train,” when Ojani realized how famous J-Lo was. “That’s when I realized maybe he was someone,” he said. “The next morning my pager goes off. Jane was supposed to see me before my flight. The door goes and I open it and she falls in my arms. We kissed, and as soon as she got into her limo, she looked back like in the movies and I thought, ‘That’s it. this is madness,'”

When J-Lo was in Los Angeles, Ojani used to talk to him on the phone at the restaurant he worked in. When J-Lo returned to Miami, he invited her to come on his date at the film’s premiere, blood and wine.“I rented a cheap suit. We reached the red carpet, there were all these flashing lights and fans screaming. I started feeling sick. I walked down the carpet holding her hand and stood next to her as she was giving the interview. “I heard her say, ‘Jack, I want you to meet my date, Ojani.'” She recalled “I turned around and she was introducing me to Jack Nicholson. Then she said, ‘This is Michael’ – And that was Michael Caine. I felt like I was in a movie. A few years ago I was on a dinghy at sea running away from Fidel Castro, and now I’m on a red carpet. Michael Caine was cute. He said, ‘ Don’t worry, you’ll get used to it.'”

Ojani told The Daily Mail that she and J-Lo had sex for the first time on the night of the premiere. “That was the first time we made love. It was perfect. She was perfect. We lay there afterwards and she said, ‘I want you to be in my life forever. I love you.’ I felt like Mr Cinderella,” he said. “She’s a traditional girl. She comes from a humble Puerto Rican family. She wanted someone to protect her, someone who would stand up for her. We totally fell in love.” He continued, “I quit my job and moved to L.A. We lived in a nice apartment. But soon we moved into our first house and then the house got bigger. She loved that I was a Balceros [rafter] from Cuba. I never wanted anything from him. I always worked and had my own money. We’ve been together for about six months when he got selena, We went to San Antonio, Texas to shoot and every night we would come back to the hotel and she would fall into my arms full of insecurities. He didn’t think she was good enough. In the middle of the night she started crying bitterly. I comforted her and said she was the best, that she was killing him.”

Ojani told The Daily Mail that when J-Lo was filming Selena, he knew he wanted to propose to her. “She loves shopping, and when she wasn’t filming we went to the local mall. One day we went to a jewelery store and she started looking at the rings. She pointed to one and said, ‘I like that,'” she said. “She left and I pretended I needed to go to the restroom. I went back to the shop and told the girl to put it aside. I had money left. I was working as his personal trainer, but there was also modeling money. The ring cost $15,000 – a fortune at the time. I hid the ring in a plastic bag behind the sink. Ojani proposes to J-Lo at rap party selena, “Everyone was cheering. I got down on one knee and gave her the ring. She was crying and laughing and said ‘Yeah!'” she said.

However, tensions between J-Lo and Ojani began when her mother, Guadalupe Rodriguez, criticized her for marrying her in Florida instead of her hometown in the Bronx. “Jane would be in tears all the time. Her mom was calling her and yelling, trying to get her to change venues. So I called Lupe and said, ‘You need to stop this.’ It was a big mistake. Since then there has been tension between me and Lupe.” J-Lo’s increased fame also changed their relationship. “She went from Jane to J-Lo, this big business is bringing in millions. There were all these new people around her, everyone wanted to make money from her. I’d call and an assistant would say, ‘Sorry, she’s available. No,'” she said.

When Ojani was hired to open J-Lo’s Los Angeles nightclub, she remembered seeing pictures of her and P. Diddy, who was then producing J-Lo’s music in New York and Which J-Lo later dated. “I called Jen and asked why she was going on a date with him and she said, ‘It’s just business. This is what I’m being told I have to do.'” Ojani said. “I was jealous and yelled, ‘But you’re married!’ We wanted kids, we discussed having kids. Then he told me he couldn’t have kids as it might hamper his career.”

Ojani also recalled an interview with him and J-Lo. The Oprah Winfrey Show Where J-Lo denies that there was a problem with his marriage. “Our whole lives turned out to be lies,” Ojani recalled as she lost 40 pounds because of the stress of their relationship. “We went to the Golden Globes and sat down with Jack” [Nicholson], He said, ‘You guys look very happy.’ I told him, ‘I don’t think so.’ He asked me to stay there. I never thought I’d get relationship advice from Jack Nicholson.”

J-Lo and Ojani divorced after 11 months of marriage. Soon after, J-Lo dated P. Diddy. In her settlement agreement with J-Lo, Ojani was left with $50,000 and kept her wedding ring. “Many times she told me she wanted to get back together. In quiet moments she would say, ‘I need you in my life. I don’t want to lose you,'” Ojani said. In 2002, four years after their divorce, J-Lo hired Ojani to manage a restaurant in Los Angeles. Three years after she fired him, Ojani sued J-Lo, settled with him and moved back to Florida, where he lives alone. Ojani also told The Daily Mail that she thinks her marriage to J-Lo would have lasted if it weren’t for the “parasites that feed on celebrities” and reports that refer to her as a “useless waiter”. portray in.

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For more on J-Lo’s life, watch True Love by Jennifer Lopez. The 2014 memoir “Jenny on the Block” covers the singer’s career and personal life, from her debut as a dancer to when she became the mother of two twins with her ex-husband Marc Anthony. In the book, which includes over 200 personal photos from J-Lo’s never-before-seen collection, the Selena actress writes about how “she faced her greatest challenges, identified her greatest fears, And eventually she emerged stronger than ever.” To become the pop icon we know today.

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